I met my wife through work and prior to her I was dating a woman I met at a friends BBQ

These women are lamenting the lack of ‚good‘ men.And you use it as an example of these women’s ‚baggage levels‘. And that one should steer clear etc.

Yes, I would steer clear. ?“, I’d expect a good few women would avoid him too based on his attitude, I wouldn’t say they necessarily have baggage though, but he likely has some hang-ups 🙂

Maybe there are people there who’ll start chatting to others no matter what they type about themselves and their preferences, and choice of profile photos – all the merrier if so!

The problem with online dating is that there’s significant emotional bun out by playing the numbers game. It’s hard to not get jaded by trying to game the system – and this is where all the baggage comes from from both genders, I’ll wager. When people learn that success comes from treating each online profile – and person behind it – as expendable in your quest for online success by playing the numbers – something dies you in you risk ending up with baggage.

There’s a lot of broken people out there, and all they need to do is meet someone who smashes their stereotypes and makes them believe in love again. That’s a tough ask, and requires that one rare and special person to do.

There’s a lot of broken people out there, and all they need to do is meet someone who smashes their stereotypes and makes them believe in love again.

It has been a while since I was on a dating site and I did meet one of my Ex’s through RSVP, but mostly met with disappointment

where does one go to find a . nice.. lady these days . I was on there, and I didn’t have any of those demands in my profile, kept it positive, and yet I hardly got any contacts (certainly nowhere near 200 a day!) so it would seem to me that 90% of men on dating sites aren’t really as interested in a „. nice.. lady“ as they say they are.Luckily I did find a nice guy on a dating site and we’ve been married now just on 2 years so it does happen.

For a LADY time travel capability will be necessary . back to the 1950s, the last age privileged to vestiges of feminine -or masculine, decorum and elegance.

Fashions are cyclical. We’ll get back there one day, once people realize that sleeve and neck tattoos were a really bad idea.

Oh yes indeed. I’ve seen some awe inspiring examples of when the veil finally falls off and the real person is there to see, amazing how long the act can go on for.

Group B: mediocre women that are super picky. The only reason why they are online dating is because their standards are out of wack with reality and have rejected all mediocre men in their life already. They do accept that they are not super models so are willing to trade a small amount of looks for a lot of money in their prospective partner.

I would go on canadian kone few dates and they wouldn’t look like their pic or you would have to drive the whole conversation. Would get put off after a few different dates then deactivate my profile.

Personally I didn’t put all my energy into online dating. Keep your options open, take up invitations to things and get out there, you never know who you are going to meet.I think internet dating has its place, but don’t spend all you time looking at profiles.